balance

I need to start by saying I’m not racist! Even these people stereo-type themselves as laid back! So it can’t be wrong for me to do it.When you think of work-life balance for some weird reason you wouldn’t think Australians could help. But then again maybe that laid back attitude that they profess is part of the answer.  I read an article which gave 10 tips for better work life balance. I suffer in this area. I was able to earn my Bachelor’s Degree and work more than full-time. I know how to time manage. I am know working on my Masters, have a wife, two young kids, a more than full time job, volunteer with my local church, etc. A normal adult lifestyle right??? I’m not to sure I know how to manage my time anymore. I don’t miss appointments and stuff like that. I am a little behind on school work, but that’ll take about 3 hours to remedy. But somehow I feel that I’m not spending enough time where I should be. That maybe partially due to the fact that after school last night I ended up back at the office, instead of home. In my defense, Everyone would be asleep by the time I get home anyways.Let’s break down that article!

1. Work out what matter. A+

2. Know your entitlements. B ( I know them but don’t like using them, big believer in showing others by your actions how they should deal with life)

3. Negotiate an agreement. (with who??? my wife doesn’t really negotiate!!! I know it is talking about work etc) I refuse to grade myself. Besides grades are childish. 

4. Schedule your time. B possibly C (If not why would I be writing this!!!)

5. Learn to say “no”. And keep my job!!!! Right!

6. Ask for help. (Dear Heavenly Father . . .) I believe I am a great delegator (A+) but like most control freaks, (I’m fessing!), I believe there are certain jobs that only I can do right. (F–)

7. Be web savvy. A+ I put most IT guys to shame

8. Look after your health. B- Its keeping up! Except for sleep, rest, relaxation. What is stress burn out anyways, I think I live there!

9. Focus on end results. Here is where it gets hard, thanks to this commute of mine even if I finish earlier there is no way to get home early.

10. Take time out for you. They are kidding right! What is a boundry. That article must have been written by an Australian, or a Gen Y’er!

AM I ALONE??????